During the first 75 years of Pelham’s existence, residents were usually buried “on the farm”. Often the graves were unmarked or temporarily marked with wooden crosses. All evidence of most of the early “on the farm burial” places has disappeared.

Two of the Family Burial grounds were more formal than the rest. One was the Sherburne Burial Ground established in 1798 when James Sherburne, who migrated to Pelham from Portsmouth, New Hampshire with his family in the winter of 1751, was buried between the Farmhouse and Sherburne Road. By 1876, fifteen members of his family had been buried in the front yard.

Early in 1898, at the insistence of his wife, Jennie Kathleen Marshall, Gardner Willie Sherburne sought approval to move his ancestors from the private Sherburne Cemetery to the recently established (1893) Gibson Addition of the Pelham Center Cemetery.

Permission was granted in a written document signed on August 1, 1898, by Pelham Town Clerk Daniel P. Atwood. A photocopy of that document can be found on page 244 of “Reflections, a Pictorial History of Pelham”. The Sherburne gravestones were moved with the remains and can be seen today in sharp contrast to the later stones that surround the Sherburne gravesite at the Gibson Addition. It was the practice in the early 1800s to use thin slate gravestones. Thick granite gravestones were the standard when the Sherburne ancestors moved to the Gibson, and thick granite stones surround the Sherburne gravesite.

The only family cemetery that survives today is the Coburn-Lyon Cemetery on Pulpit Rock Road in Pelham. It received its formal documentation in 1875 when Bradley F. Lyon and George D. Coburn recorded a deed which read in part “Therefore in consideration of the love and affection we bear to our kindred we hereby donate, give, grant, convey and confirm to the lineal descendents of said William R. Lyon and Gilbert Coburn through all succeeding generations forever, an equal right and privilege with ourselves in said lot for all entombment or burial uses and for no other use or purposes whatsoever except to ornament and improve the same in a manner suitable for such use.”

The Town of Pelham currently maintains six cemeteries, including the private Coburn-Lyon. A non-Pelham Polish Catholic Church and a non-Pelham Jewish Synagogue maintain cemeteries behind the Coburn-Lyon Cemetery on Pulpit Rock Road. No evidence has been found that either cemetery has ever been used by a Pelham resident.

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